Starting college is a big deal — not just for your child, but for you too. It’s exciting, yes, but also a little overwhelming. One minute you’re helping them with high school homework, and the next you’re packing for dorm life and talking meal plans and class schedules. Whether they’re moving into a tiny dorm or a shared apartment, a little planning goes a long way in making this transition smoother.
As a parent, you want to set them up for success. This list includes 10 essentials — plus helpful tips — that will help your child settle in, feel at home, and stay prepared for the road ahead.
1. Bedding and Linens
Dorm beds aren’t your typical twin — they’re longer (Twin XL). The right bedding matters more than you think. It’s what they’ll crash into after all-nighters, weekend calls home, and everything in between.
Pack:
Twin XL sheet sets (2 minimum — one to use, one to wash)
Pillows and pillowcases
A good comforter or duvet
Mattress topper (life-saver on college mattresses)
Laundry hamper or bag
Optional: Waterproof mattress cover, extra pillowcases
Pro Tip: Dark colors hide spills and are easier to maintain.
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2. Study Supplies & Desk Essentials
A quiet study nook can help them stay focused (or at least look like they’re studying on Zoom). Having the right tools boosts productivity and keeps clutter at bay.
Pack:
A solid laptop or tablet (with a protective case)
Notebooks, pens, markers, highlighters
Adjustable desk lamp (preferably LED with USB ports)
Surge-protected power strip
Sticky notes, folders, index cards, binders
Chair cushion if the dorm chair is awful (which it might be)
Pro Tip: Teach them how to use Notion or Google Drive for organizing class notes and to-do lists.
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3. Bathroom & Toiletries
If they’re sharing a bathroom with a floor full of strangers, convenience and hygiene are everything.
Pack:
A durable shower caddy (mesh dries faster)
Flip-flops for the shower
2–3 bath towels, hand towels, washcloths
Basic toiletries: toothbrush, toothpaste, soap, shampoo, deodorant
First aid kit with basics: band-aids, painkillers, allergy meds
A toiletry bag they can grab on the go
Pro Tip: Start with travel-size toiletries. They can restock once they settle in.
4. Clothing & Footwear
College fashion is all about comfort — but it still pays to be ready for anything, from study marathons to job fairs.
Pack:
Comfy clothes: jeans, tees, hoodies
Layers: sweaters, jackets
Sneakers and sandals
Undergarments for 2–3 weeks
Formal outfit (for presentations, interviews)
Weather-specific gear: umbrella, raincoat, winter coat
Pro Tip: Vacuum bags save space. You can rotate seasonal clothes during breaks.
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5. Laundry & Cleaning Supplies
Yes — they’ll be doing their own laundry (eventually). Set them up with what they’ll need to keep their space livable.
Pack:
Detergent pods (easier than liquid)
Dryer sheets or wool balls
Stain remover
Lint roller
Cleaning kit: wipes, mini vacuum, paper towels
Pro Tip: Tape a simple laundry cheat sheet to the hamper. Trust us.
6. Kitchen Basics (Even for Non-Cooks)
Even if they’re eating in the dining hall, late-night snacks and quick meals are part of the college experience.
Pack:
Microwave-safe dishes and mugs
Reusable water bottle
Travel mug or thermos
Utensils, sponge, dish soap
Easy snacks: granola bars, noodles, trail mix
Mini fridge (check dorm rules first)
Pro Tip: Reusable containers = fewer impulse buys and more leftovers.
7. Storage & Organization
Dorms are tiny. Good storage means less clutter and more sanity.
Pack:
Under-bed bins (huge space-savers)
Hanging closet shelves
Over-the-door hooks
Drawer organizers
Pro Tip: Label everything — unpacking is easier, and roommates won’t “accidentally” borrow stuff.
8. Comfort Items from Home
A new place can feel cold at first. A few familiar things can really help with homesickness.
Consider:
Photos of family, friends, pets
A cozy blanket or rug
Noise-canceling headphones or earplugs
A favorite book or journal
Plug-in air freshener (if allowed)
Pro Tip: One or two sentimental items go further than you think.
9. Important Documents
Keeping documents safe and organized avoids a lot of headaches.
Pack:
Folder with:
Student ID, passport/driver’s license
Health insurance info
Immunization records
Financial aid and banking info
Class schedule, housing contract
Pro Tip: Back up copies on a secure cloud storage account like Google Drive.
10. A Strong Mindset
This may be the most important thing on the list.
Encourage your child to:
Stay open to new people and experiences
Learn from mistakes and ask for help when needed
Balance work with rest
Stay in touch — but don’t be afraid to step out of their comfort zone
Pro Tip: Confidence, flexibility, and a good attitude are the real college essentials.
Final Thoughts
You don’t need to pack up the whole house — just the things that matter most. Let your child take the lead while you guide them. A solid checklist and a few good conversations can make the whole process less stressful (for everyone). And remember: the goal isn’t perfection — it’s preparation.
FAQs
1. What should we not bring to college?
Avoid candles, hot plates, bulky furniture, and high-value items. Always check the school’s banned list.
2. When should we start packing?
Start 3–4 weeks before move-in. It reduces last-minute stress.
3. What if they forget something?
No big deal. Most things can be bought nearby or shipped.
4. Should we reuse things or buy new?
Reuse as much as you can. Buy what’s missing later.
5. How do we split shared dorm items?
Talk to roommates before move-in. Coordinate who’s bringing what.
6. How much clothing should they bring?
Pack for 2–3 weeks. Dorm closets are small — no need to overdo it.
7. Is renter’s or dorm insurance necessary?
Yes — it protects against theft or damage. A small cost for big peace of mind.
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