Month nine of pregnancy is special because not only are you in the home stretch, but you are also finally ready to meet your baby. The last month is often filled with excitement and anticipation, not to mention a fair amount of anxiety.
But before your family undergoes such a big change with the baby’s arrival, it’s a good idea to enjoy some quality time with your husband.
During the final month, life can get pretty hectic with hospital visits, labor classes, and last-minute baby-proofing. Spending time with your husband will give you both a chance to reflect, regroup, and appreciate each other before you both take the plunge into parenthood.
12 Things To Do With Your Husband In The Last Month Of Pregnancy
1. Take a Maternity Photoshoot
Remember this time. You won’t remember everything, and this is a moment you’ll want to look back on with your child one day. Take a maternity photoshoot and preserve those lovely memories for a scrapbook or poster. You can hire a professional photographer or have your husband take some good snaps with his phone. Pick your own theme and outfits—whether you prefer natural snapshots, intimate shots, or a casual outdoor photoshoot. This time is all about you and your husband, so enjoy it together.
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2. Prepare the Nursery Together
If everything is already ready, that’s great. But if there are any last-minute things to sort out, now is the perfect time. Whether it’s adding some decorative pieces, organizing baby clothes, or setting up the furniture, get involved with your husband. You’re creating a safe and happy space for your baby, and by doing it together, you’re also making more memories.
3. Go on a Date Night
The last month will be a whirlwind of planning and last-minute hospital trips. Because of this, it can be tempting to slack off on the “date night” plans you had in mind. But that would be counterproductive to the point of this list. So, no matter how much effort it takes, find a chance for a nice dinner date, a movie date, or even just a cozy night in. Take a moment to focus on each other before you’re both busy with your newborn baby.
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4. Watch Your Favorite Movies or TV Shows Together
Life has a way of getting in the way, and there never seems to be enough time for the things that are important. Now is the time to park yourselves in front of the television and binge-watch some series or films. It doesn’t have to be particularly constructive—it can just be for fun and enjoyment. Watch something you both love and make yourselves laugh and cry. Curl up on the sofa with each other and feel the love between you.
5. Take a Relaxing Walk
If you can manage it, a good walk with your husband is one of the most bonding activities there is. Along with getting a bit of exercise, you’ll be getting some fresh air and spending quality time together. In the last month of pregnancy, it can also do you good. Walking has several positive benefits for pregnant women in the later stages, such as increasing circulation and reducing stress. It will also keep your spirits up, so get out and enjoy some uninterrupted time with your husband.
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6. Go Over Your Birth Plan
You probably have your birth plan all ready, but in the last few weeks, it’s a good idea to go over it one last time with your husband. Discuss everything from your options and preferences to pain management, aftercare, and support. It’s important that you both are on the same page for the actual day of birth, so this is the time to ensure that. You won’t regret getting everything in order and down on paper with your husband.
7. Create a Memory Box for the Baby
Birth itself is such a special occasion that you can also use this time to start making memories of your baby’s life before they are even born. Create a memory box for your child and include things like a copy of your pregnancy test, ultrasound pictures, and even letters to your child from both you and your husband. Fill it up with small mementos of this journey you’ve both been on together before your little one is even born. You can even include a special gift from your husband for your child.
8. Plan a Special “Babymoon”
Babymoons have become quite popular these days, but since you’re already late in your pregnancy, you may not be able to pull off anything extravagant. Don’t stress—it’s not about going anywhere fancy; it’s about spending time together. You can plan a simple getaway or just a pamper day or two at home. It’s a great way to relax and have that one last chance to recharge your batteries before the final month and your new little one arrives.
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9. Share Your Hopes and Dreams for the Future
This month is perfect for having that important conversation about your dreams, hopes, and aspirations for the future as a family. Talk about what kind of parents you both want to be and your hopes for your child. Tell each other what you’re most looking forward to about parenthood. Share your dreams for your child and discuss your ideas about how to raise them. It’s a great way to bring you two closer together and remember what’s most important in your life before you become parents.
10. Spend Time Reflecting on Your Relationship
The last month is also a great time to look back on your relationship and reflect on how you and your husband got to this point. How did you meet? What have been your favorite memories together? When was the first time you looked at each other and knew? Talk about your relationship and what you love most about your husband. It will help you both appreciate each other and remind you of all the love you share while raising your child.
11. Have a “Baby Shower” for the Dad-to-Be
Baby showers are typically for mothers, but there’s no reason why a baby shower shouldn’t also be for the dad-to-be. Set up a get-together with a few friends or close family and let your husband have his moment in the spotlight. Let him receive pampering, gifts, and indulge in some good-natured games and activities like mothers do at baby showers. It’s a way for him to have some alone time with his friends and family before the baby arrives.
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12. Create a Birth Playlist
A good playlist is one of the most effective mood-setters, and creating a birth playlist is a great way to use your time together. Choose some songs that will be happy and energizing for the day, but also add some more calming and soothing tunes for any difficult moments during labor. Share your favorite songs and discover new ones that can help you relax and unwind together. You can also add some special songs that remind you of each other on the big day.
The final month of pregnancy is an exciting time in your life as a couple, but before you know it, your little one will arrive and everything will change. The last month is a great time to really enjoy your husband’s company and make the most of your time together before everything shifts.
Spending quality time together will help you both reconnect and reflect on your relationship, your lives, and your hopes for your child and the future. You’ll also be able to relax, unwind, and create memories you can share with your child one day. So, spend the last month making the most of each other and making some happy memories.
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